For The Ladies: Understanding men for successful relationships

Men are an increasingly complicated species. They have different tastes and requirements of what they want in their ideal woman and thus it is crucial to understand the male preferences about women in order to understand their behavior and attitude. Majority of women feel that the ideal woman for a man must be the zenith of perfection with stunning beauty, a wonderful personality and absolutely no flaws. This is most certainly not true while most men do take into account attractiveness as an important feature but for long term commitment it is important for them not to be unimpressive in terms of personality traits. There are some specific types of women that are not preferred by men and they try to avoid them at all costs.

First is the whiny needy girl which majority of men detest. This woman is always after the man for commitment and her overly whiny nature is a real turn off. The more dominant personality trait of such a woman is her independence. She is extremely independent to cover for her clingy and extremely needy nature. This kind of woman only shows her true nature once the relationship has become strong and taken a turn towards greater security, only then does the increasing clinginess start to manifest. For such women it is important that they allow men to see some of their vulnerable nature since the start of the relationship rather than keep their true identity and feelings hidden and then expect a man to help them with their empty feelings.

Whiny women ... ANNOYING

Then there is the woman who has great anger and is dominantly a man-hater. As she is more of a challenge, men will take a chance and try to win her over. Because of her inner desire to fight and greater anger men will not want to pursue her for serious commitment but just see her as more of a conquest that can be undertaken and then left. Her perceived strength is the most attractive feature. This type of woman herself is a complicated picture she has the strength of a man and the sensitivity of a woman. Her anger is most likely a shield to avoid getting her hurt. Thus the most important thing for this woman in a relationship would be to take things slow and get to know her man letting him capture her heart gradually and thus not getting too emotionally invested in a relationship at lightning speed.

For a woman who is extremely conscious about her career, men can be both attracted and repelled by her. There is a very commonly known myth that states: “Men are threatened by successful women.” While this myth might not hold entirely true but still it is correct that men perceive the career-oriented women as those who act as if they don’t need a man. In the usual scenarios when women are completely satisfied by work and do not need men to keep them happy, this is a source of conflict. It is completely true that men do not need a woman who is overly dependent on them but at the same time men feel increasingly flattered when women being confident rely on them from time to time. Thus it is advisable for such a woman, to not place their work before their man as majority of men want to be the center of attentions in their women’s lives. Thus it is extremely important for women to realize their personalities before and then analyze how men will react to them.